I hope all is well and you are at least fighting the good fight by putting your faith and trust in God for whatever you are going through. The battle is not yours; it’s the Lord. I’ve learned by doing this you will discover your peace, strength, and confidence in yourself which comes from Him and His love for you. God will give and show you what you need to win your battles for your peace of mind. That’s how good God is. He never intended for us to be in this battle called life alone. This is why He gifted us with a faithful friend who is with us always. We’re never alone because He is within us, and that friend is Jesus. In all my messages to you from me and by the Spirit within me, I will always and forever encourage and inspire you to get close to God. When you’re free, you’re productive so it’s essential for you to understand His position in your life.
God speaks this same message in John 15: 7-11 AMP, If you remain in Me and My words remain in you [that is, if we are vitally united and My message lives in your heart], ask whatever you wish and it will be done for you. My Father is glorified and honored by this, when you bear much fruit, and prove yourselves to be My [true] disciples. I have loved you just as the Father has loved me; remain in My love [and do not doubt My love for you]. If you keep My commandments and obey My teachings, you will remain in My love, just as I have kept my Father’s commandments and remain in His love. I have told you these things so My joy and delight may be in you, and your joy may be full and complete and overflowing.
God is the true answer to all your problems and the emotional barriers that stop you from being free and living your best life. He is a problem solver who gives life and heaven on earth when you have joy, peace, and happiness in your heart, your life, and the people around you. You will reap what you sow. There’s no way you can have these characteristics in your heart, your life and not attract the same kind of people to share with you the joy you have. With these like-minded/spirited people, you will be able to grow and build together because you plant and sow good seeds for your lives. We’ll get farther along in life and our endeavors if/when we learn how to stand and work together for the good of us and the world we live in. Also, this is why I am forever grateful for my support group, and they’re not all blood families, but I consider them my family. I love my blood family and hold nothing against those who are not an active person in my life. I like to think they still love me in heart and spirit and that’s good enough for me. I pray they think and feel the same about me. I’m thankful because God has blessed me with who and what I need in order for me to be victorious in His many blessings that He gives me to carry out His plan for my life. I’m glad I’m too thankful for who I have to miss, who I don’t have and not hold grudges against them. I see a lot of that on my timeline. People are upset or feeling upset about the people who they think should be in their lives whether they should or not, to me it’s an example of you putting your faith and happiness in man. Especially, if that person is unavailable, and it causes you grief in your heart. Now, here’s the lesson in it. When you put your faith in man and not God, you will be upset and hurt because you don’t have control over these people. You can’t make them do what you think they should be doing because of who they are or supposed to be to you. You can only control yourself and how you won’t allow their actions to determine your peace of mind and happiness that God gives you because He loves you and supplies you with your every need. When you reflect on your life and all that God has brought you through and provided for you, you should be able to know it was God, and God alone, and you should count your many blessings, in this moment. Therefore, you shouldn’t allow the people in your life or not to have power over your happiness or how you prosper and mature in life. If you struggle with this, I pray God bless your minds and hearts today. Let it go, be happy, and blessed with what God has given you. You are not independent. That’s not how God designed us or this world to operate. We are dependent on the universe that makes the world go around. When you try to be “independent,” you really struggle and become lost because you’re looking for everyone or everything other than God who will fail you. How you handle it says a lot about your relationship with God. God will never fail you because His love never fails. However, change starts with self and what you put out in the world to influence its nature. Be accountable and a positive influence in your life and others.